Domestic Violence Resources

Resources for Women Experiencing Abuse

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If you or someone you love is experiencing domestic violence, you do not have to figure everything out alone.

You don’t have to wait until its “bad enough”.

You can ask questions just because something doesn't feel right.

I’ve put together this collection of organizations, hotlines, legal resources, books, and podcasts because sometimes the hardest part is simply knowing where to begin.

You don’t need to read/listen/watch everything. You don’t need to make a decision today.

Start wherever feels useful.

If you are in immediate danger, call your local emergency number:


Canada: 911

United States: 911

United Kingdom: 999

Australia: 000

New Zealand: 111



🚨 HELP & CRISIS SUPPORT


CANADA:


Assaulted Women’s Helpline – Ontario

24/7 crisis line, counselling, safety planning, information and referrals

📞 1-866-863-0511

📱 #SAFE (#7233) from Bell, Rogers, Fido or Telus mobile phones

TTY: 1-866-863-7868

🌐 awhl.org


ShelterSafe – Canada

Find a women’s shelter or transition house anywhere in Canada

🌐 sheltersafe.ca


211 Canada

Connect with local community, housing, social and crisis services

📞 211

🌐 211.ca


Talk4Healing – Indigenous Women

Culturally grounded support for Indigenous women

📞 1-888-200-9997

🌐 Talk4Healing


Fem’Aide – French-language support in Ontario

📞 1-877-336-2433

TTY: 1-866-860-7082

🌐 femaide.ca


Halton Women's Place - Support for Women in Halton

🌐 https://haltonwomensplace.com/


Indigenous Support 🇨🇦


Hope for Wellness Help Line

For First Nations, Inuit and Métis people across Canada. 24/7 emotional support, crisis intervention and referrals to community-based services. Support is available in English and French, and by request in Cree, Ojibway and Inuktitut.

📞 1-855-242-3310

💬 Online chat: hopeforwellness.ca⁠


Talk4Healing – Indigenous Women in Ontario

24/7 culturally appropriate support for Indigenous women in Ontario.

📞 1-855-554-4325

📞 Thunder Bay: 807-346-4357

💬 Online chat: Talk4Healing⁠


Missing and Murdered Indigenous Women and Girls Crisis Line

24/7 crisis support for individuals impacted by MMIWG and 2SLGBTQQIA+ issues.


UNITED STATES:


National Domestic Violence Hotline

📞 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)

📱 Text START to 88788

💬 Online chat available

🌐 thehotline.org


UNITED KINGDOM:


National Domestic Abuse Helpline – Refuge

📞 0808 2000 247

Available 24/7

💬 Online chat available

🌐 Refuge National Domestic Abuse Helpline


Women’s Aid

🌐 womensaid.org.uk


AUSTRALIA:


1800RESPECT

National domestic, family and sexual violence support

📞 1800 737 732

📱 Text 0458 737 732

💬 Online chat and video call

🌐 1800RESPECT


NEW ZEALAND:


Women’s Refuge

📞 0800 733 843

24/7 crisis support

🌐 womensrefuge.org.nz


Shine

📞 0508 744 633

24/7 confidential support

🌐 Shine


Are You OK

📞 0800 456 450

24/7 family violence helpline

🌐 Are You OK


🌎 INTERNATIONAL


NO MORE Global Directory

Search for domestic and sexual violence services by country or region.

🌐 NO MORE Global Directory


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⚖️ LEGAL RESOURCES (Ontario)


Legal Aid Ontario – Domestic Violence

📞 1-800-668-8258

GTA: 416-979-1446

🌐 Legal Aid Ontario


Luke’s Place

Legal information and support for women experiencing abuse, particularly in the context of family law.

🌐 Luke’s Place


Barbra Schlifer Commemorative Clinic

Legal, counselling and interpretation services for women experiencing violence.

🌐 Schlifer Clinic


Law Society of Ontario – Lawyer Referral Service

🌐 Law Society of Ontario


Coercive Control - Department of Justice Canada

🌐 Coercive Control PDF


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📱 TECHNOLOGY & DIGITAL SAFETY


Tech Safety Canada

Resources for technology-facilitated abuse, stalking, monitoring, privacy and digital safety.

🌐 Tech Safety Canada


Tech Safety & Privacy Toolkit

🌐 Technology Safety and Privacy Toolkit


Tech Safety Planning Toolkit

🌐 Tech Safety Planning Toolkit


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📚🎧🎥Understand What’s Happening

The books and podcasts that help you put language to the experience.


📚READ


Why Does He Do That?

Lundy Bancroft

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook


The Verbally Abusive Relationship

Patricia Evans

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook


It's Not You

Ramani Durvasula, PHD

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook


The Body Keeps the Score

Bessel van der Kolk

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook


What My Bones Know

Stephanie Foo

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook


Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance

Peter Salerno, PsyD

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook


Healing From Hidden Abuse

Shannon Thomas, LCSW

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook


Trauma Bonding

Lauren Kozlowski

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook


Dinner for Vampires

Bethany Joy Lenz

📖Paperback

🎧Audiobook

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🎧 LISTEN


Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse

Kerry McAvoy, PHD

SPOTIFY


Navigating Narcissism

Ramani Durvasula, PHD.

SPOTIFY


Why She Stayed

Grace Stuart

SPOTIFY


You Are Not Crazy

Jessica Knight

SPOTIFY


🎥WATCH





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